The Tension of Parenthood

To the one feeling the tension of parenthood amid other dreams,

You are seen… And I want you to know that every sacrifice you have made in order to be present for your family is seen and cherished. ⁣Every dream that was placed on hold for the sake of your undivided attention is holy. ⁣Every task that never got done. Every project that never got started. And every book that was started but never finished, it’s ok. It's not a race, it’s not a matter of checks and balances, and it’s certainly not about multitasking during the most sacred season of your life. ⁣

Because someday we'll look back and see the sacred fossils of families that were formed in response to our sacrifice. And we will smile because what felt like a sacrifice then will look like a reward in the days coming. ⁣⁣

So shed the guilt that you’re not doing enough. Let go of the lie that this season is ineffective and that you’re not living up to your potential. And give yourself permission to know that you are exactly where you are supposed to be.